Friday, June 19, 2009 | 11:51 PM | 0 Comments
of all the ppl.. why her.. why does she has to be sad? why must she cry infront of me.. i tried my very best to hold MY tears..
i kept quiet. i looked at Boyy, who knew i was trying my best not to cry.. he tried comforting her.. but to no avail.. he was lost. she isnt someone hes closed to.. if its me, tts a diff story. shes closer to ME. but.. i at tt point, didnt noe hw to comfort her.. unless she didnt tear.. omg.. i felt very bad..
i just cant take all the anger and intense hate he is causing me to feel. HE has told my friend that no-one else will ever love her, that any other boy would dump her within a day and generally degrades her. Now to me thats a classic abusive relationship starting. In every film or anything on TV ive seen with an abusive relationship it all starts mentally with that. And ive read it on the net too, all of which i know isnt concrete evidence but hewy its a pretty good sign right?
*TOO DRAMATIC?*
i mean i cant take this! what can i do? i actually feel like killing him, literally, i think of him gargling on his blood as he chokes on it and dies...
argh..
she deserves more den this. haiz
♥ TrappedButterfly
Ex-Boyfriends Quotes Dilemma
| 11:41 PM | 0 Comments
Many ex-boyfriends quotes may be had by questioning your friends. Others use family, loved ones, by reading magazines, books, watching movies or visiting online websites catering to breaking up with boyfriends or lovers.However we should ask ourselves what are the motives involved in looking for these quotes? Is it guilt, fantasy, nostalgia or plain old can't let go? Because before looking for ex-boyfriend quotes find out the reason and be clear about why that person is an ex.As I said previously before anything else, examine the reason. A lot of the time it might be a way of living in the past and not facing up to reality and getting on with your life.Sometimes it may be good to ask yourself some question, was the ex-boyfriend the type to say I love you? Is that a quote you heard often? Did it mean something when he said it? Most of the time, when we hear those three words and see it quoted somewhere the memories come flooding back.I ask all the time, what's the point. Are we so consumed with thoughts of our ex-boyfriends, that any poem or quote we can tie to that person affects our whole being? Life is short and shouldn't be spent living in the past, love quotes tend to put us in places of security, totally ignoring the reality that exist. I was fond of saying, "You never miss the water till the well run dry." This may not qualify as an ex-boyfriend quote but as relationships go, it means that when you have someone or something and takes him/ her/ it for granted, when that person or thing is gone you then realize how much you miss them.Its ironic how sometimes these quotes set you thinking and you realize how much you miss your ex-boyfriend but pride and stubbornness is keeping you from calling him up and giving the relationship another try. I always say go for it what is there to lose, you are already in misery. All of the ex-boyfriends quotes in the world wouldn't bring you out of the miserable state you are in. It surely wouldn't hurt to at least try to get that aspect of your life straightened out, once and for all. Then move on.Strive on many occasions wherever possible to get out and about.Don't sit at home moping and wasting your life away pining for something that possibly will never return. You owe it to yourself to live for you, for the moment and for the future.Not that I am advocating that those little quotes don't mean anything but it helps to get over your ex-boyfriend and move on with your life.Occasionally, the desire maybe to get your ex-boyfriend back cause you still love him and there are some eBooks and other books out there which show you how and it wouldn't hurt to read one or two if its your desire. You may find some pretty good quotes in them. It certainly couldn't be worse than how you are feeling.
♥ TrappedButterfly
