Sunday, August 19, 2007 | 9:12 PM | 0 Comments

- Just being Emotional -

After all, what is the most important factor contributed to 'Love'? I think that will be Mutual Trust between the both party... dun u agree?

Trust is the basis of all human relationships. Trust can be thought of as a thermometer that can measure the positive and negative nature of a relationship.

When trust is absent, there are deep and hidden animosities. Respect is lost and our relationship is compromised as our energies go into manipulation and protection rather than working together towards a shared vision. There will be argument and quarrels.

We are human beings and guess what? I know we often mess up and make mistakes. We have many shortcomings, imperfections and defects. That's part of everyday life. But people who can be trusted take responsibility for their weaknesses.

Seriously i think It really takes time to develop trust in someone, especially for people who have been hurt before. Who do you trust? What are the characteristics that support that trust? If the relationship is important to you what are the small steps you can do to restore betrayed trust?

But after all, someone help me through this. He gain my trust. I know he is someone i can rely on..

To me now..

Dear friends, if you really find someone you can rely on and trust. Cherish the person :D

Trust is central for a loving, honest and respectful relationship. And it is really very important factor contributed to a relationship.

Both you and your loves one should trust each other to remain loyal, be honest, communicate feelings, thoughts and opinions openly and genuinely, value each other as human beings and not objects to be used and manipulated.

When you trust your partner, you will be protected. You know you won't be hurt, betrayed, or ridiculed. You can let down your guard and really be yourself with your partner, allowing a feeling of complete security to flow through the relationship.

And what, You don't need to censor or edit your conversations, or alter your behavior. haha. You can just be the original you!! Be it doing any silly and ugly stunt.. haha



TrappedButterfly



 
    | 12:01 AM | 0 Comments

Hmmmmmmmmmmm......... g0t my bill t0day.. i was sh0cked by the am0unt, leave al0ne dad... cant expect him t0 be calm ab0ut it.. hes the 0ne paying f0r it, 0nli daughter, s0 has t0 be in c0ntr0l wad.. he d0esnt wan me t0 be like any 0ther gals r0aming l00sely... he has his expectati0n.. th0ugh he d0esnt says directly.. m0m gets his sc0ldings 0ften..

My Bill f0r 14/08/07 to 13/09/07:

Plan + IDD = $29.60
outgoing = $64.27
incoming = $246.62 (FREE)
total sms = 288 = $14.40 (FREE)
Calling frm SG to India (5mins) = $7.96

Total : $101.83

*shakes her head*
Naz! why s0 much! u sleep 0n the f0ne is it?!!! arggh... u're 19.. n still u cant manage ur 0wn bill. ltr future hw la.. knn..
s0rry abt tt.. was sc0lding myself.. f0r the past 3 mths.. my bill has been ar0und $30 t0 $35.. i was s0 pr0ud 0f myself. tis m0nth.. i dun0 wad happen. and dad asked if i hv return back t0 my 0wn ways n stuff.. hmm.. kena sc0lded la.. wad else..

i didnt t0k back t0 him.. but i was w0ndering, WHY S0 MUCH! hmm.. i didnt call 0ut tt much wad.. i dun0 la.. maybe i did smth n i cant rmb.. i dun0.. i wen int0 my r00m quietly.. with0ut saying a w0rd.. heard him saying t0 m0m, " keep all her salary, dun give her any m0ney.. 0nce she gets m0ney, she'll spend 0n tis n tt.. blah blah blah.. take the hp away if u wan t0.. " i was like.. here he g0es again... s0 started smsing th0se wh0're in c0ntact with me regularly n0t t0 msg me f0r the time being..

den i called Prince t0 say n0t t0 call me n stuff.. 0nce i heard his v0ice, i went, " hell0.. eh, dun call me 0r sms me anym0re k ya.." he was like HUH!? den i repeated again. my t0ne was like, kinda straight f0rward. was tinking abt wad dad said la.. den he asked, " s0 u w0nt call me 0s0 lah.. u wanna break? wad did i d0.. we 2 were 0k wad. wad happen?? " tt made me laugh.. and i said, " n000000.. i didnt mean in tt wayyyyyyyy! " den t0ld him everything tt happen.. he was like, " why d0 u hv t0 tell me like tt in the 1st place. naa aaditte "

den he wen 0n saying, they care abt u, tts why sc0ld u n all. if they dun care, they w0nt b0ther u having a bill 0f m0re den $100 0r wad. he made me realise al0t 0f things sia.. den i t0ld him.. usually ah.. (bef0re he came), if dad 0r m0m sc0ld me, i'll curse dem under my breath.. g0 inside r00m n cry. i angry, i cry. wth.. den i'll b 0k.. den yday, wen he said all tt, i realise, its f0r my 0wn g00d. guess wad, i didnt cry n0r get angry n0r curse. weeeeeee! i t0ld him tt.. he was happy.. =)

t0ld him tt i dun0 if i'd still hv my f0ne.. n he said dun call via HP. c0s the inc0ming call minutes will be sh0wn n asked me t0 use hse f0ne wen n0b0dy is at h0me.. use card la but use with hse f0ne.. he was super nice sia.. am i lucky 0r wad. we t0ked 0n.. den we came t0 a part, where i said,

this m0nth is 0ut 11th mth. i w0nt call u till its 0ur 1 year anniversary. tt is 0n 21st September. guess wad, he Laughed! he laughed n laughed n laughed. i was super paiseh.. asked him why lah.. he said, i can nv do it. i cant be quiet f0r m0re den 3 days. aft the 3rd day, i c0nfirm will call.. and i said, "0h.. like tt lah.. u n0e i'll d0 it, if i really have t0 right.. fine lah.. paatthiduv0 la.. Singap0re 0r India nu paatthiduv0 lah.. " den he said " fine lah.. yew tee 0r Chennai nu paatthiduv0 la" ( l0lx! crazy c0uple )


if he wins, tt means, if i call him bef0re 21st september, aft i said hello, he'll say, i n0 vekkam, manam all.. which i t0ld him, i l0st it aft meeting him.. and i was saying i still hv s0me.. s0 time t0 pr0ve. and he'll laugh at me until he gets back t0 SG.

if i win, tt is, if the Princess wins, (hehe) he'll get 0r d0 f0r me anything i wan wen he c0mes back t0 SG. i was like.. yeah baby.. c0me t0 me... u'll be under my c0ntr0l..

den he said, n0w, his pasi (hunger) is m0re impt den me, s0 he t0ld me t0 hang up.. b4 hanging up, i t0ld me smth tt will last till 21st sept. he t0ld me he l0ves me al0t! & very very happy tt he g0t me, n realli prays tt his dream will c0me true, tt is t0 have a gal like me as his wife.. =)

weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!


isnt he sweet 0r wad.. hehehehehehe! kk enuff..

alrite den.. cia0zzzzz!


TrappedButterfly